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Crying
All babies cry - this is your baby's way of knowing that he
or she needs something. So how do you figure out what he/she
needs?
Reasons Babies Cry
There are many reasons babies cry:
-
Hunger
- Wet or dirty diaper
- Uncomfortable - too hot, too cold, scratchy clothing, etc.
- Gas on tummy
- Need to change positions
- Wants to suck
- Wants to be held
- Wants to be close to you
- Just having a fussy time
To figure out why your baby is crying, first check that your baby's
basic needs are met - has she been fed recently? Is her diaper
clean, dry, and fastened correctly (not too tight)? Is she dressed
appropriately (comfortable clothes, not too warm or cold)? Is it
time for a nap?
Ways to Soothe Your Baby
If all of the basic needs have been met, and baby is still crying,
check for other causes of discomfort. Your baby may have gas on
her tummy or be colicky. Try burping her, or apply light pressure
on the tummy to soothe and help relieve gas. Some ways to do this
are to carry her like a football, face down on your forearm, with
his/her legs straddling your elbow and her chin in your hand, or
place her tummy-down across your knees and gently bounce your legs.
If this is a persistent problem, you may want to ask your baby's
doctor about giving your baby an infant strength anti-gas medicine
(available over-the-counter).
Of course, there are times it seems impossible to figure out why
a baby is crying. Keep in mind that just like the rest of us, babies
have their good days and their bad days, and someimes your baby
may just be in a fussy mood. So what do you do then? Here are a
few ideas:
- Change position - Has baby been sitting in his/her swing for
a long time? Trying laying him/her on her back or tummy on a
blanket with a few toys. A change of scenery can do wonders for
even the youngest baby!
- Sing a song or talk to your baby - Your baby loves the sound
of your voice, and that may help to calm and reassure him/her.
- Move around - take your baby for a ride in the car, or for
a walk in the stroller, or even dance around the house. Sometimes
babies just want to be close to you and get a change of scenery.
- Try a pacifier - Many babies have a strong need to suck, unrelated
to hunger, and find it soothing to suck on a pacifier, a finger
or thumb.
- A warm bath - this can distract your baby from crying, as well
as soothe and relax him/her before bed.
- Give him/her a few minutes alone - Just like the rest of us,
sometimes babies need some "down-time." If you have checked out
all of his/her needs and have tried other means of soothing your
baby to no avail, it is okay to leave your baby alone in his/her
crib for a few minutes. Come back a few minutes later to check
on your baby and to reassure him/her, then step out of the room
for a longer period of time. Your baby may just need to be alone.
Unusual Crying
As you and your baby get used to eachother, you will pick up
on your baby's habits and patterns of crying. If, however, your
baby's cry seems unusual - inconsolable in the usual ways or
particularly high-pitched, or if your baby seems unhappy but
doesn't cry - be sure to contact your baby's doctor as this could
be a sign of illness.
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